Letters I will never send out

[boycott]

Originally Posted by dustzee

I confessed to my wife. I told her so I could work things out with her. Expectedly, she broke down.

Bro, you're ultra brave to do that.

IMHO confessing here is much better option.

[dustzee]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

You obviously have far too much free time on your hands and an idle mind is the devil's workshop.

If your life was challenging and meaningful you wouldn't have time for all this lovey, dovey nonsense.

No doubt...

[dustzee]

Originally Posted by boycott

Bro, you're ultra brave to do that.

IMHO confessing here is much better option.

Got inspired by a friend bro. I wouldn't say it's a smart move, but he said it's a wise one.

[dustzee]

It's been what? 2 weeks?

I'm still getting withdrawal syndromes. It's not as bad as the first week, so, I guess this is progress.

I still have the urge to, you know, wonder how you are doing. And also I am still trying to force myself to accept the fact that this is none of my business. Anyway, if we somehow meet again, I don't think I can face you.

I've been to other places, met a lot of people, I've kept myself very busy and I'm talking a lot more with my wife.

The nights are painful. I hate sleeping alone in a hotel room. Sometimes I thought of finding comfort elsewhere but I decided that would not help me at all.

Talking with my wife brings some joy. It's not the same intense passionate thing we used to have, but it's good to have small little joy and content. Working on the contentment part.

[MalcomX]

You are one brave dude.
I feel you.
Onwards now will be tough.
But may things turn out well for you in the end.

[dustzee]

Originally Posted by MalcomX

You are one brave dude.
I feel you.
Onwards now will be tough.
But may things turn out well for you in the end.

Definitely not brave, thanks for the well wishes

[dustzee]

I'm trying to abide to the rules I've set to myself. Things are better but sometimes memories bring sharp pain. I've been trying to get used to it. Distraction helps a lot, so for brothers going through the same thing, set a target on something else and whenever you need distraction, work towards that target.

Here's a song, dedicated to you:

[voluptuousvenus]

Feeling exactly the same way. Ending something I never want to end in the first place. Trying to work it out with my husband. One thing I will never do is confess. Sometimes we thing that by confessing we will be more guilty thinking of the other person, but it might be our desperate way to get our husband/wife's attention. Anyway, I admire your self control and ended the affair. Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind. I miss him terribly too and I am trying my best to move on. All the best to us.

[alwaysalone]

Not sure whether you will read this.
I read before that it takes half of the time together to get over a relationship.

Similar to you I write all my thoughts down but in emails.

Only can wait for time for us to get use to losing that someone.

The pain won't fade, you just get used to it.

[Hytronic]

I miss her terribly. She has shown me the passion, love and sparkles when we are together. She has given me countless time to chose between my family and her. But I doesn't have the courage to tell my wife and kids. Have to suck it up and live with deepest regret. What is love without you. I promise her to give my true blessing for her to find happiness. I pray the guy she fall in love will love her wholeheartedly and God please bless her with happiness.

Bob love you

[ManWithSeh]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

You obviously have far too much free time on your hands and an idle mind is the devil's workshop.

If your life was challenging and meaningful you wouldn't have time for all this lovey, dovey nonsense.

well said, all the lovey dovey ends after they tie the knots.