my affair with my sis in law

[sensit32]

Wah kao straight to the heart as for mi u til now 5yrs I stil can't forgot my mistress im very emo once put in feelin I can't forget until the day I die rem the memories wit her. As for TS I dun know how fast u can't forget or Mayb tis life nv ever jus like mi. I cried aft she brokeoff wit mi aft tt I punch sandbags which is at my other room remove my groves punch raw until my both hands bleed skin tear the pain tt I wan to cover my pain in my heart until today I stil do tt my CO ask y u not pain meh train until like tt I jus replied stress at work so I hit hard to de stress but in my heart I miss her badly. Not every guy is tt strong can put down as for mi I cant .HELL is waitin for mi I'm sinful

[joew2005]

well ... life hv 2 go on .....

[seowlang]

Life has to go on. Or has it? I had suicide thoughts for a brief while after that day. Wasn't just J but the betrayal of my wife and all that has happened when I sat alone to run through all the events during that few months.

Anyway, I sincerely appreciate all the kind words. I read every post and pm like a person taking advice from a friend. U guys have been excellent companions and listening ears, especially to a person who can't turn to anyone with this problem for over a year. Never thought I would share to another person, let alone to many in a forum.

Next 2 days will be busy at work. Will be back to wrap up if I can.

Cheers
Seowlang

[ajlover]

bro, its indeed sad when true emotions and real feeling are involved. We are always caught in a situation whereby we had a 新欢， yet cant put down the 旧爱.

I am still on-off with my ex for almost 20yrs ! yes 20yrs, this december will be 20yrs,

我爱的人和爱我的人。。

whenever I tell my friends abt her, they would say, 'what 20yrs liao, both are you are still 纠缠不清??' time to put it down and move on with life

[andythai]

a sad ending bro, but I always believe there will always a better tomorrow as long as you are still alive.

[Derra69]

Originally Posted by seowlang;

she is good as a wife but not as a lover. u know what i mean?

yes I can understand as I am also in the same situation.

[WhyWhy00]

Bros, you know? what you facing before is what i facing now but not sil and me.another type of relationship.

it is really very painful.

Originally Posted by seowlang

Bro,
till this very day, more than a year later, i still get very very emotional when i read it. guess i need a whisky now..

im continue again soon..

[hari2mau]

Originally Posted by seowlang

Life has to go on. Or has it? I had suicide thoughts for a brief while after that day. Wasn't just J but the betrayal of my wife and all that has happened when I sat alone to run through all the events during that few months.

Hey Bro, Life is great although it has it ups and downs. You will be hurting your wife and J if you injure yourself. Give yourself time to sort this out. You cannot reverse time but you can make things better in either path you choose.

Need ears PM me.

[cocksters]

take care bro. Time will heal the wound. It's whether you allow it to heal or not.

[MarsIswar]

A quote to share... Someone once told me if you are strong enough to say goodbye to today ,life will reward you with a better tomorrow... For me it did not work as I can't bear to let go but hope the rest of the bro here are able ba... Kudos and Prost

Ps.都是天涯沦落人 pm me if ear are needed

[8387]

i know it is cliche, but it really is true:
it is better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all.
I hope this entire experience makes you stronger AND wiser.

[yang punk]

Originally Posted by 8387

it is better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all.

Second that! Bros in sin it is also better if the other party wants to break-up with you than you with them. Less guilt and just remember you are lucky to have a share of someone who didn't 'belong' to you.

Something is better than nothing! (Console yourself with that!)

[mike62]

Bro,
Time will heal the wound. It’s good the relationship ended this way, imagine the relationship has end with your wife finding out. Worst right. Be strong.

[rwx001]

bro, time is the best healer.
good luck

[stst]

A sad ending. but a very good write up.

Thanks for sharing