when a married woman says she loves u......

[discordpiggy]

Originally Posted by Intltuk

Sometimes, divorce is not a choice . If I remember correctly, women are not liable for payment of alimony under women's charter; men are.

Just to share an experience one of a close bud........

Childhood sweethearts. He partially sponsored her education thru' Uni and they eventually married and hve 4 kids. She's a high flyer, earning 10k+ and he's a house husband, driving a cab part time as he's a non-graduate and they decided that one partner should be there for the kids....well u know of course, the decision was easy as she is bringing home the bacon.

One day, she was caught red handed, committing adultery with another man.

During the divorce proceedings, he's made to pay $800 towards the upkeep of the children and the custody of the kids go to the mother. The house, she bought out his share(pay his CPF part with interest only) with no proceeds from future sale.

He's left with nothing to his name, a little CPF, no savings and no house. He had to beg the gov for a rental subsided housing...and still pay alimony from his average 2k cab driver earning.

Sorry, if the story is a little bland but the point is.......women's charter is skewed towards women......even if they are multi-millionaires....they don't pay alimony...the men, on the other hand, to not pay, will have to go to court to prove otherwise....and the chance of winning are remote...and the lawyers are the only ones who benefit.

bro Intltuk, sorry for the late reply, but i think that guy went to the wrong lawyer? no offence.

i am hoping to take up a course in this to help set things right for men who put in effort in making things work. also where women just take for granted in all the good things they have and not cherish it.

hopefully i can succeed and help the underdogs...

[discordpiggy]

Originally Posted by Botakhead

But there are still many who dun get the message across into their brain, hence screwed up their life and future.

Saying 'I Love You' is easy and can be done without effort, but the receiving party may be in a situation whereby these 3 worded sentence can make a whole lot of difference at that point in time.

Both party must be clear whether it is a casual remarked sentence blurted out for fun or whether it is genuine and tagged along with real love.

There was this one married woman, she won't give up, she was having a nice family and hubby also loved her deep deep, but she still go on and used the sentence with disregard to her hubby's feelings. In the end she caused a closed knit family to crashed through a wall, she lost her married life and later on, the person whom she said 'I Love You' to, also abandoned her.

She lost big time, now life to her is slutty, filthy and without real love.

Botakhead kor kor, sorry for late reply.

Yes! precisely this is what i was looking at and wanting to know. the other side of the coin.

you understand where this is coming from. It isn't saying that men did not put in effort but more of the married men here is the victim.

when a woman is married with loving husband, kids and flat and husband provided everything for her yet she will take for granted and go out to say "l love you" to another man. or claimed that her husband is not satisfying her when he is working hard to provide for the family and her.

so it is not to say that Men did not provide enough, in fact it is the other way round when Men provide everything yet women took advantage of it.

Hence, when a married woman says she loves u ... to NOT her husband but other men outside...

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by lasupkia

Women saying I love u is like farting.
1. Silent no smell. Means all is well.
2. Loud no smell. Means just blowing air.
3. Silent with smell. Means something else going on secretly.
4. Loud with smell. Most likely from PRC whores calling u Lao Gong I love u so as to fleece your cash.

Ha.........love the sentences especially the part- loud with smell. Most likely from PRC whores calling u Lao Gong I love u so as to fleece your cash. Absolutely right, so scare of those PRC women anyhow say I love u as mostly they already have a hubby in their homeland.....here hubby not around, can anyhow flirt with guy here n even say I love u to married man here, in seek of what? Sex, of course as hubby not here can't provide her. Money, of course, the more money squeeze from the man the more the merrier.

To me, especially those PRC whore say I love u, I will just treat them as smelly fart & escape. Ha.... those PRC may think they born to be pretty & their fart is fragrance....but pui lor!!!

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by Nato17

I hate it when women think we owe them a living etc. And especially hate it when PRC gals think that they are God's gift to men!

Seriously, here is some food for thought. If a potential employee came to you and you wanted to hire the person, do you have to treat them with kid's glove and woo them? Maybe if you are a Harvard or Yale grad but then again, I think you have to prove yourself before I go all out to woo you to join my company. However, with PRC girls, it is the other way around. Woo me with your Rolexes, your cars and your money and then I decide if I want to be with you.

Ok, they are two different matters altogether, but still.....it is food for thought isn't it?

Ha.......they r God's gift to men? Shld be Ghost's gift to men? PRC whore is that loose slutty type who will say Lao GOng I love u to any men she met no matter single or married. Lao Gong, Lao Gong is their common word coming from their stink mouth. They like to use sweet words like LAo GOng, wo ai ni, wo hao xiang ni,........to melt Guy's heart and then hee............trying to coax u spend more money on them, squeeze n squeeze your money all out & bye bye to u!

[HonkyTonkyMan]

Originally Posted by peanutbutterjel

But what's the big deal about women's charter? It's beginning to sound very much like some 武林密集 manual ppl read before getting married..........

I don't read it. I didn't even know about its existence until those lesser-than-men keep kpkb about it. If you've got nothing to be afraid of, why so hung up and so scared of that silly manual. Most ladies don't know about it and don't use it. Maybe the group of ladies you know different la. They very sophisticated and dive into love doing calculations la.

You don't need to know its existence, you will only it unyielding powers when it comes to a divorce. How askew the law is when a woman can cuckold her husband but he still have to pay to maintain her lifestyle throught maintenance and chop off half his assets to her. That how powerful the act is.

[HonkyTonkyMan]

Originally Posted by peanutbutterjel

Now, as for the lady cheaters out there, they cheat (if it’s an ongoing thing) because their men don’t treat them right.

And this has nothing to do with sex because their dudes are probably still getting some from them. It’s usually more about emotional intimacy. There is too much to cover here, so my advice: Get a book, give a crap, and figure it out. One time lady cheaters: Either a cry for attention or a way out.

Either way, most women don't cheat just because they are plain horny. If a nice married woman cheats, you can only imagine what drove her to.

I beg to differ, the same reason why some, i say some not all men is the same reason why some again i said some not all women stray. Emotional intimacy, its a vice versa thing. Not every women that cheated is a result of abuse. Perhaps you haven't been around enough to realize there are some women who are just like men, they simply have any insatiable appetite for sex.

[HonkyTonkyMan]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

did you kena the women charter...care to share experience...

not sure why many still insist on divorce when knowing they lose so much more...easier to keep life simple...although a lawyer or financial planner can help to hide some of these assets...

Well guess they never knew how powerful a archaic law such as the Women Charter can be until they divorced and in most divorces, its normally initiated by the women so guys don't really have much of a choice.

[Botakhead]

It has been ironic that many couple who are deemed the perfect pair, 郎才女貌，the male suave and handsome, the female pretty and sweet.

Some of these matches have hic-cups and met with obstacles, the men strayed and find outside 'makan' better though may not be as pretty looking as their matrimonial partner, and the women also may seek outside 'comfort' much more easier, to confide with all sufferings withheld in their heart, with other men who shown more care and concern than their own husband.

Think once, think twice, think thrice and think more carefully before divorcing.

[HonkyTonkyMan]

Originally Posted by Botakhead

It has been ironic that many couple who are deemed the perfect pair, 郎才女貌，the male suave and handsome, the female pretty and sweet.

Some of these matches have hic-cups and met with obstacles, the men strayed and find outside 'makan' better though may not be as pretty looking as their matrimonial partner, and the women also may seek outside 'comfort' much more easier, to confide with all sufferings withheld in their heart, with other men who shown more care and concern than their own husband.

Think once, think twice, think thrice and think more carefully before divorcing.

Problems with such "perfect" couple, they have egos that need to be fed and that is what attracted them to each other. Once they have out grown each other, they tend to find "imperfection" in each other and there where problems arise.