Fion's - nothing to hold on to, how to move on.

[siri]

i suddenly remember a chinese quote and I auto wanna share it with you babe..

要爱 我办不到，
要放 却忘不了。。

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by siri

i suddenly remember a chinese quote and I auto wanna share it with you babe..

要爱 我办不到，
要放 却忘不了。。

Ahh! So true babe. But it sounds so sad, just like this.

[july3rd]

Originally Posted by fion.18

Are u v fair? Fair people tend to get dark rings. Either that or your skin is v thin so pigmentation easily shows. I heard that doing fillers just under your eye lid (creates the puffy eye bags tat most Koreans gals have) helps conceal dark rings. Not sure how true. But can research la haha.

Yup! I consider quite fair among my peers. Used to be fairer.

Ya! Need research I feel so upset whenever I see my dark ring

[july3rd]

Originally Posted by demonhunter

For eye bags , you have to put eye cream and massage the swell everynight before you sleep ... If that still does not work , I need to see you in person .

I got so many eye cream! Not working on me

[demonhunter]

Originally Posted by july3rd

I got so many eye cream! Not working on me

That means we got to meet up for the special remedy .... it seems your case is quite bad .

[july3rd]

Originally Posted by demonhunter

That means we got to meet up for the special remedy .... it seems your case is quite bad .

Is really bad! U doctor? Where your clinic?

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by july3rd

Yup! I consider quite fair among my peers. Used to be fairer.

Ya! Need research I feel so upset whenever I see my dark ring

Can do IPL. You know étude house there's this concealer/highlighter thingy for dark eye rings. Works quite well leh.

[demonhunter]

Originally Posted by july3rd

Is really bad! U doctor? Where your clinic?

Im Doctor Love , and I operate from home ....

Heheheheeee ...

wanna play Doctor and patient ?

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by demonhunter

wanna play Doctor and patient ?

Wahahaha! I so had a feeling u were gg to say that. 😱

[july3rd]

Originally Posted by fion.18

Can do IPL. You know étude house there's this concealer/highlighter thingy for dark eye rings. Works quite well leh.

I'm quite noobs with Beauty stuffs beside going to facial.
Lately, my eye is giving too much problems

I will check it out next weekend! Thanks girl

[july3rd]

Originally Posted by demonhunter

Im Doctor Love , and I operate from home .... Heheheheeee ... wanna play Doctor and patient ?

Aiyah! I thought you are those real clinic doctor!
My friend told me one clinic at tampines but I doubt it helps for dark eye ring. Seem like more for pimples skin right?

[002nabe]

I click click click and landed down here LOL

anyway I share the same emotion as you when my ex broke up with me many years ago, was always looking for traces of her from other girls ......... including FL and ML that I found here.
it got worse and worse ......

then she came along, and Bang! a complete opposite of her. LOL
and I never felt any better.

time is surely and probably the only healing element .... do some community works, bring joy to others ......

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by july3rd

I'm quite noobs with Beauty stuffs beside going to facial.
Lately, my eye is giving too much problems

I will check it out next weekend! Thanks girl

You're always welcome babe. Let me know if you want a pic of the concealer okie?

[sarahxx]

hey babe,

im in the midst of moving on, n i found what helps is.. really to occupy ur time w sth else. for me, i found going to the gym really helped, i go home feeling v good abt myself. also, gg out w my girl pals - cocktails, a night out etc.. n letting ur hair down definitely helps to take ur mind off stuff.

its inevitable u'll compare him w the other guys u've dated bcos u havent moved on n u still miss him. i guess the best way for me is.. out of sight, out of mind. u cant fight ur emotions, so dont put urself in a position where u'll succumb to it. being out of sight, out of mind - i mean stop texting, delete all his msges, photos, anything tht will make u feel nostalgia abt the relationship. bcos if u dont, u are still subconsciously latching on to these memories and u'll nv move on. its a emotionally draining process but u gota be strong babe n let time heal the wounds..

all the best!

[fion.18]

Hi sweetheart, I'm sorry to hear you are gg thru the same thing as I am. It must be difficult on you as well. Yes I agree gym helps, makes me so tired I fall asleep when I get home. Also helps me shed off the extra pounds that I need to.

It's a bit different for me. I entered this relationship knowing that this would be the outcome. And exactly because I knew, I treasured every single moment with him. A couple of weeks ago I made it know to him that he needs to stop contacting me. That he has done. But on my part, I'm not ready to delete those conversations, chats or pictures we had. I don't look at them anymore but I just don't want to delete everything about him yet. Perhaps I still don't want a world where he totally doesn't exist. At least if I keep the chats, if ever one day I feel so bad & need him around, I still can replay all his voice recordings for me (fingers crossed it hasn't happen yet)

Time is the best healer. For me and I'm sure for you. Hang in there too babe.

Originally Posted by sarahxx

all the best babe!