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Old 18-12-2014, 01:22 AM
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

Contrary to popular beleifs,

Ejaculation actually comes from mental stimulation instead of physical stimulation.

This is what explains why we can have wet dreams and ejaculate without touching, just from our vivid imagination of a highly arousal activity.
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Old 22-12-2014, 06:02 PM
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I also have problems cumming during sex but I think its due to my masterbation method, prone-masterbation. Its basically humping a pillow. Lol.. I cant cum anyway else as I have been doing his method for year and apparently it greatly desensitises the penis. I read online that I have to stop masterbating for about 2 weeks to a month and so called retrain by penis to masterbate using hand and i am currentlt resisting the urge to prone masterbate. Any bros have the same experience ??
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

how do u hump pillow, teach me lei..
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

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Ejaculation actually comes from mental stimulation instead of physical stimulation.
Very interesting, never knew that
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

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I also have problems cumming during sex but I think its due to my masterbation method, prone-masterbation. Its basically humping a pillow. Lol.. I cant cum anyway else as I have been doing his method for year and apparently it greatly desensitises the penis. I read online that I have to stop masterbating for about 2 weeks to a month and so called retrain by penis to masterbate using hand and i am currentlt resisting the urge to prone masterbate. Any bros have the same experience ??
i used to hump pillow as well. it starts young when i found out pushing on pillow is much more fun.

nowadays i try to stop humping pillow and stop fapping. double with a supportive partner can really help. my girl basically pushed a dildo up her back while i fuck her from the front. cum in like few pushes.
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

Quite recently since last year early I am plague by this problem. Even after consuming cialis (at my age of early 50 need this to sustain an erection) my penis will be hard stuff for 2 to 3 hours till my FBs have a few orgasm but surprisingly I can't ejeculate when I needed to. My FBs did perform to their very best for me to cum till they wear out but seems fruitless. Feeling really frustrated. And due to this issue my FBs believe that I don't care for them any more which is otherwise. Tried imagining bonking all the desirable girls and ways that usually will bear fruit when screwing my FBs but not anymore now.
Food wise I am eating a correct balance of nutritious food just lacking in exercise but that shouldn't prevent me from cumming.
Need advice cos I can't live without cumming.
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

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Need advice cos I can't live without cumming.
Is it your stress level?
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

If cumming is an issue, this might be a problem of over stimulation on both the physical and the mental levels.

Physically, over engaging in agressive intercourse can desensitilise the nerves at the genetial areas, results in the inability to reach orgasm. Think of the first time you maturbate in your life. Aint that feeling heavenly? That is all due to those virgin nerves getting touched and stimulated for the very time. Ever stroke on it feels like on cloud 7.

Mentally, the main issue could be too much porn. In this age, it is so easily to get porn, that an average 20 year old male have watched more than hundreds and thousands more naked women than our grandfathers 50 years ago.

After you have seen so many, it doesnt seems to turn you on as much, resulting in constantly seeking the new thrill and new graphical stimulant.

Get off of porn and hardcore sex a while. Restrain for at least 2 weeks. You might see yourself humping like a your teen again.
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

Could it be a sensitivity issue, where the head is less sensitive?
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

From what i have experienced. Its basically because i masturbate too much in a particular position. While having sex, missionary, doggy, is a different position, also some pussy isnt as tight as your hand, nor can you relax while fcuking right? you need to flex those abs, back muscles and hips.

Try finding a position that gets you off easily and it might help.
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

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I have difficulty cumming when having sex with my gf. She is very wet, so when pumping I don't feel much friction. Pump 20-30mins I still cannot cum While she enjoys her orgasms, she also feel sad and inadequate that she cannot make me cum Any bro (or sis whose partner) encountered the same problem? How to solve?
Method 1, try something that may help you.

light sm for instance hold her hand really tight when doing doggy and give it a go, grab her neck from the back etc.

Method 2, try getting her to cowgirl u.

not up and down but brushing against your body front and back.

Method 3 think of your fantasy and try to cum.

hope this helps.

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Old 31-01-2015, 09:15 PM
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I have difficulty cumming when having sex with my gf. She is very wet, so when pumping I don't feel much friction. Pump 20-30mins I still cannot cum While she enjoys her orgasms, she also feel sad and inadequate that she cannot make me cum Any bro (or sis whose partner) encountered the same problem? How to solve?
maybe you watch too many AV
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

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maybe you watch too many AV
Agreed... usually watching too much porn cause your mind is tuned to the porn-like level of stimulation and reality sex don't work for u anymore
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