Can you love someone & yet cheat on him/her?

[Boinkboinkboink]

Originally Posted by hugs

Can she do the same with younger men and NEVER hurt you?

Wow. So in your face one!

[Darrius]

Mrclen, I seldom post, but just wanted to let you know that I fully understand you and totally agree with you.

[ringo6668]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Love and sex are two totally separate entities so cheating is easy.

Haha that's a good answer bro.But this a question which women find it difficult to understand.But for men is very common to cheat their love ones even he loves her.Most cats will eat fish only some exceptional ones don't.

[GingerEm]

Yes. Try being stuck in a relationship where you can count the number of times you've had sex within the past year.

Case in point... When I first got together with her we were bonking like bunnies and having sex everywhere. Our second date was spent at Southern Most Island @ Sentosa where SHE fingered me to an orgasm for pete's sake.

8 months later, she claimed she's not feeling it... and slowly the sex tapers off to almost nothing. You still love each other, you are emotionally connected but somehow, somewhere the sex died together with a little part of you inside... How do you have sex with someone who treats sex as a chore?

My personal rules, I don't sleep with other women and I try to get my STD testing done regularly. Men are fair play. Forgive me if I sound embittered but I think everyone has their own reasons for "cheating".

[hugs]

Originally Posted by GingerEm

Yes. Try being stuck in a relationship where you can count the number of times you've had sex within the past year.

Case in point... When I first got together with her we were bonking like bunnies and having sex everywhere. Our second date was spent at Southern Most Island @ Sentosa where SHE fingered me to an orgasm for pete's sake.

8 months later, she claimed she's not feeling it... and slowly the sex tapers off to almost nothing. You still love each other, you are emotionally connected but somehow, somewhere the sex died together with a little part of you inside... How do you have sex with someone who treats sex as a chore?

My personal rules, I don't sleep with other women and I try to get my STD testing done regularly. Men are fair play. Forgive me if I sound embittered but I think everyone has their own reasons for "cheating".

Share with you a personal secret recipe. 1. Find a partner who is extremely good looking in your eye. 2. That partner must also find you extremely good looking as well. 3. Must be willing to love you, proving in action (pleasing you sexually and supportive in your careers, cooks etc) and in words (sweet talks and encouragements). 4. You rely on her. In the end, whether together or apart, this relationship has been worth it.

[GingerEm]

Originally Posted by hugs

Share with you a personal secret recipe. 1. Find a partner who is extremely good looking in your eye. 2. That partner must also find you extremely good looking as well. 3. Must be willing to love you, proving in action (pleasing you sexually and supportive in your careers, cooks etc) and in words (sweet talks and encouragements). 4. You rely on her. In the end, whether together or apart, this relationship has been worth it.

Everything is worth it except for the lack of sex portion. That's why I'm here. I would like to get married with her some day though.

[hugs]

Originally Posted by GingerEm

Everything is worth it except for the lack of sex portion. That's why I'm here. I would like to get married with her some day though.

Aww so sweet! 人间有真爱! 祝福祝福! Wish you both a merry Xmas and a happy new year in advance! 😊